List of 75 Good Manners in The Quran

List of 75 Good Manners in The Quran

Human nature desires a society based on morals and manners which provides a stable and secure life leading to liberty and happiness for all people. 

Muslims believe Prophet Muhammad had a character as a model for all humanity to follow. The Quran describes the Prophet as:

By an act of mercy from God, you O' Prophet were gentle in your dealings with them - had you been harsh, or hard-hearted, they would have dispersed and left you - so pardon them and ask forgiveness for them. Consult with them about matters, then, when you have decided on a course of action, put your trust in God: God loves those who put their trust in Him? Quran 3:159

Following is list of 75 good manners that we can learn from the Glorious Quran:

1. Don't lie (22:30)
2. Don't spy (49:12)
3. Don't exult (28:76)
4. Don't insult (49:11)
5. Don't waste (17:26)
6. Feed the poor (22:36)
7. Don't backbite (49:12)
8. Keep your oaths (5:89)
9. Don't take bribes (27:36)
10. Honour your treaties (9:4)
11. Restrain your anger (3:134)
12. Don't spread gossip (24:15)
13. Think good of others (24:12)
14. Be good to guests (51:24-27)
15. Don't harm believers (33:58)
16. Don't be rude to parents (17:23)
17. Turn away from ill speech (23:3)
18. Don't make fun of others (49:11)
19. Walk in a humble manner (25:63)
20. Respond to evil with good (41:34)
21. Don't say what you don't do (62:2)
22. Keep your trusts & promises (23:8)
23. Don't insult others' false gods (6:108)
24. Don't deceive people in trade (6:152)
25. Don't take items without right (3:162)
26. Don't ask unnecessary questions (5:101)
27. Don't be miserly nor extravagant (25:67)
28. Don't call others with bad names (49:11)
29. Don't claim yourselves to be pure (53:32)
30. Speak nicely, even to the ignorant (25:63)
31. Don't ask for repayment for favours (76:9)
32. Make room for others at gatherings (58:11)
33. If enemy wants peace, then accept it (8:61)
34. Return a greeting in a better manner (4:86)
35. Don't remind others of your favours (2:264)
36. Make peace between fighting groups (49:9)
37. Lower your voice and talk moderately (31:19)
38. Don't let hatred cause you to be unjust (6:108)
39. Don't ask too many favours from people (2:273)
40. Greet people when entering their home (24:27)
41. Be just, even against yourself & relatives (4:135)
42. Speak gently, even to leaders of disbelief (20:44)
43. Don't criticize small contributions of others (9:79)
44. Don't call the Prophet how you call others' (24:63)
45. Try to make peace between husband & wife (4:128)
46. Don't call the Prophet from outside his rooms (49:4)
47. Opprression/corruption is worse than killing (2:217)
48. Preach to others in a good and wise manner (16:125)
49. Don't accuse others of immorality without proof (24:4)
50. Consider wives of the Prophet like your mothers (33:6)
51. Don't raise your voice above that of the Prophet's (49:2)
52. Don't call someone a disbeliever without knowing (4:94)
53. Seek permission before entering someone's room (24:59)
54. Know your enemies can become your close friends (41:34)
55. Don't wrongly consume the wealth of the vulnerable (4:29)
56. Don't turn your cheek away from people in arrogance (31:18)
57. Forgive others, as you would like Allah to forgive you (24:22)
58. Seek Prophet's permission when leaving his gathering (24:62)
59. Don't hold secret meetings for sin, rather do so for piety (58:9)
60. Don't order others to do good while forgetting it yourself (2:44)
61. Be patient with your teacher & follow his instructions (18:67-69)
62. Don't frown, turn away or neglect those who come to you (80:10)
63. If unable to help a needy person, at least speak nice words (17:28)
64. Be lenient to those under you, and consult them in matters (3:159)
65. Verify information from a dubious source before acting upon it (49:6)
66. Don't remain in the Prophet's home unnecessarily after a meal (33:53)
67. Those who can should continue to spend on those less fortunate (24:22)
68. Don't enter homes without permission & return if refused entry (24:27-28)
69. Don't sit with those who mock religion until they change the subject (4:140)
70. Say it's not appropriate to talk of slander when it's mentioned to you (24:16)
71. If required to ask the Prophet's wives, then do so from behind a screen (33:53)
72. Divorce in an amicable manner instead of keeping & harming your wife (2:231)
73. Punish in an equivalent manner to how you were harmed or be patient (16:126)
74. Differences in color & language are signs of Allah, not means of superiority (49:13)
75. Don't take women by force, nor take back bridal gift without a valid reason & live with them in kindness (4:19)

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